Tips on moving abroad for your PhD
By Tim Dorweiler, PhD Candidate
Michigan State University
October 2022
Hey everyone, my name is Tim, and I am a PhD candidate at Michigan State University. This
post is about how to navigate moving to the US for graduate school. My advice is not
necessarily THE best way to do this. There is no single way of navigating such a big
endeavor – it is a very personal experience that everyone must figure out on their own. But I
think that I can provide some advice that may be helpful for those considering moving
abroad for school.
I was born and raised in Germany and have done this big puddle jump from Europe to the
US twice now, once as an undergraduate for 12 months and again in 2019 to get my PhD.
Most people that you know will tell you all the great and glorious things that they
encountered when they moved to a different country for school. No one will start off with the
challenges and rather sad times that they have been through. And trust me, they all have
had bad days. Moving to a different country, and especially continent can be intimidating and
challenging. In my case, it was the best but also hardest decision of my life.
Moving abroad is exciting … new school, new friends, new adventures, and a brand-new
culture. But sometimes we cannot appreciate it as such. It also means leaving your family
behind, your friends, your culture. It’s a balancing act, a rollercoaster-ride or whatever you
want to call it. I could talk about this topic for a long time, but I have narrowed it down to
three main takeaways.
1. Embrace the sad days just as much as the good days. You will have the best days
and your worst. Especially when you leave behind very close family bonds, friends
and maybe even your partner. Look at the greater picture and what this experience
teaches you. Try to embrace every lesson that you will learn, the good and the bad.
In the end you WILL come out as a stronger and better person.
2. Get out of your comfort zone. People that stay in their comfort zone missed out on a
LOT of great experiences. Yes, you might not be proficient in English and an
introvert, but you will find your people. The more you leave your cozy comfort zone –
the more you will learn, and in the end, that’s why we do this. To learn and
experience. Make the most out of it!
3. Don’t fight the culture, learn from it. Cultural differences are difficult. You won’t
understand many opinions or viewpoints. Politics can be challenging especially
nowadays. But do not judge them. Instead, listen and form your own opinion. We are
all different people but that’s important to recognize! Let them teach you one thing or
another or even teach them a thing or another. Cultural differences are important and
vital and will drive your understanding of how people work. This is one of the most
valuable experiences that I have gained.
In the end, my main message is to take it easy. Everything will turn out great as long you let
it be a lesson and see the message in it. Everything happens for a cause. What you decide
the cause to be is what counts. Make it something amazing – you got this!
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